some yuppie dudebro: pop music has destroyed my hope for humanity
me: really? not racism? not sexism? not the rampant discimination of the human race by the cis-het-male-white hierarchy? not war? not genocide? not the fact that we’re killing our planet?
some yuppie dudebro: nah i don’t give a shit about that. what really grinds my gears is seeing young girls listening to music and having fun.

itstartledme:

bemusedlybespectacled:

doms needing aftercare

doms doubting themselves

doms wondering why they like the things they like and if that makes them a bad person

doms asking questions and learning things and not always hitting the exact right places with the flogger every time

tbh i’m kind of bothered when people push super hard on the ‘subs have all the Real power in a scene and decide how far it goes etc’#like. doms are people with their own limits too? not kink-dispensing automatons who are down for anything (via apfelgranate)