*wades cautiously into the wank-infested waters of Fan Discourse, pulls out megaphone*
AS FANFIC IS PRODUCED FOR FREE, IT’S KIND OF SHITTY TO COMPLAIN ABOUT ITS LITERARY QUALITY OR THE FREQUENCY OF UPDATES. THESE ARE COMMERCIAL EXPECTATIONS THAT CAN’T BE FAIRLY APPLIED TO WORKS CREATED AT AND FOR NO COST.
THAT BEING SAID:
AS FANFIC IS PUBLISHED FOR PUBLIC CONSUMPTION, IT’S KIND OF DISINGENUOUS TO COMPLAIN ABOUT READERS HAVING CRITICAL REACTIONS TO THE CONTENT. CRITICISM IS A LITERARY REACTION THAT CAN’T BE FAIRLY DENIED ON THE BASIS OF WHETHER OR NOT THE WORK COST MONEY.
THAT BEING SAID:
REGARDLESS OF WHETHER A WORK IS COMMERCIAL OR FANNISH, GOING OUT OF YOUR WAY TO SEND HATE OR CRITICISM DIRECTLY TO THE AUTHOR IS A DICK MOVE. YOU CAN DISCUSS THE CONTENT, MERITS AND/OR FAILINGS OF A GIVEN WORK WITHOUT THE NEED TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF YOUR FEELINGS. EVEN WHEN A WORK IS CREATED COMMERCIALLY, CREATORS ARE NOT BEHOLDEN TO THE PREFERENCES OF INDIVIDUAL FANS, NOT LEAST OF ALL BECAUSE THIS IS A PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE STANDARD FOR ANYONE TO MEET. SOME WRITERS ARE HAPPY TO BE MADE AWARE OF CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM IN WHATEVER FORM, BUT MANY EXPRESS A PREFERENCE NOT TO SEE ANY, OR PREFER TO DO SO ONLY AT CERTAIN TIMES. IF YOU’RE NOT SURE, ASK FIRST. THIS IS BASIC COURTESY, BOTH PERSONALLY AND PROFESSIONALLY.
THAT BEING SAID:
SOME INTERACTIVE ONLINE SPACES – SUCH AS AO3, GOODREADS AND TUMBLR – ARE FAIRLY USED AND INHABITED BY BOTH CREATORS AND READERS. AS THESE SITES ENCOURAGE READER RESPONSES AND COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT VIA COMMENTS, REVIEWS AND REBLOGS AS A BASIC FUNCTION, IT’S GROSSLY UNREALISTIC FOR CREATORS POSTING IN THESE SPACES TO EXPECT TO ENCOUNTER ZERO CRITICISM EVER. SOMEONE EXPRESSING ABUSE OR UNWANTED COMMENTARY DIRECTLY TO A CREATORIS NOT THE SAME AS READER/READER ENGAGEMENT TAKING PLACE WHERE THE CREATOR CAN SEE IT. YOUR MILEAGE MAY VARY AS TO WHERE THAT LINE EVENTUALLY BLURS, BUT THE POINT IS THAT IT DOES BLUR AS A MATTER OF COURSE, AND THAT THIS IS A FEATURE RATHER THAN A BUG – ONE THAT WE ALL HAVE TO LEARN TO NAVIGATE.
THAT BEING SAID:
THE FACT THAT SOMEONE HAS WRITTEN SOMETHING THAT YOU FIND QUESTIONABLE, IMMORAL OR OTHERWISE AWFUL DOESN’T MEAN THE CREATOR SHOULD LOSE THE RIGHT TO CREATE MORE THINGS, OR THAT SUCH WORKS OUGHT TO BE ILLEGAL. YOU ARE WITHIN YOUR RIGHTS TO OFFER UP CRITICISM OF THE WORK ITSELF, THE TROPES IT EMPLOYS AND THE CONTEXT OF THEIR USAGE, BUT THE PROBLEM WITH ADVOCATING FOR THE TOTAL BAN OF PARTICULAR TYPES OF CONTENT IS THAT FICTION IS INHERENTLY LIMINAL. GIVEN THAT DEPICTION DOES NOT EQUAL ENDORSEMENT AND THE FACT THAT THE IMPACT OF A NARRATIVE IS ULTIMATELY DETERMINED BY THE INDIVIDUAL READER, IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO BAN ALL STORIES WHICH USE “IMMORAL” DEVICES UNCRITICALLY WITHOUT SIMULTANEOUSLY BANNING STORIES WHICH EXAMINE AND ACKNOWLEDGE THEM IN DIFFERENT WAYS, AND THAT’S BEFORE YOU TRY TO GET A ROOMFUL OF PEOPLE FROM DIFFERENT COUNTRIES, CULTURES AND BACKGROUNDS TO AGREE ON WHAT “IMMORAL” MEANS IN FICTIONAL CONTEXTS IN THE FIRST PLACE, WHICH DEFINITION IS NEVER GOING TO OVERLAP PERFECTLY WITH WHAT “IMMORAL” MEANS TO THE SAME PEOPLE IRL.
THAT BEING SAID:
THE FACT THAT FANFIC IS FREQUENTLY WRITTEN IN THE SPIRIT OF NARRATIVE COUNTERCULTURE DOESN’T STOP IT FROM CONTRIBUTING TO THE SPREAD OF TOXIC TROPES OR STEREOTYPES THAT ARE ALSO PRESENT IN MAINSTREAM CULTURE AND/OR COMMERCIAL MEDIA. DEPICTION IS NOT ENDORSEMENT, BUT IT IS PERPETUATION, AND THE FACT THAT SOMETHING WAS WRITTEN FOR FREE DOES NOT MAGICALLY BALANCE ITS POTENTIAL NEGATIVE IMPACT AT EITHER AN INDIVIDUAL OR COLLECTIVE LEVEL. WRITING FIC IS OFTEN DESCRIBED AS A HOBBY, BUT AS IT IS LARGELY A SHARED ACTIVITY UNDERTAKEN WITHIN A DEDICATED COMMUNITY, IT IS A PUBLIC HOBBY, AND CAN THEREFORE POTENTIALLY IMPACT MORE PEOPLE THAN JUST THE INDIVIDUAL WRITER. KNITTING IS ALSO A HOBBY IN WHICH INDIVIDUALS CAN INVEST A GREAT DEAL OF TIME AND FEELING – AND, INDEED, MONEY – BUT IF SOMEONE IN YOUR KNITTING CIRCLE STARTED BRINGING IN SWEATERS THEY’D MADE EMBLAZONED WITH RACIST SLOGANS, THE IMPACT OF THIS ACT ON OTHER GROUP MEMBERS WOULD NOT BE AMELIORATED BY THE REMINDER THAT ‘IT’S A HOBBY’. IF THIS IS A VIABLE DEFENCE, IT IS A DEFENCE THAT CAN BE USED EQUALLY BY THOSE WHO WANT TO ACT WITHOUT CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS IN THEIR COMMUNITY AND THOSE WHO WISH TO ENJOY THAT COMMUNITY WITHOUT FEAR OF BEING PERSONALLY DISPARAGED, AND IS THEREFORE LESS A DEFENCE IN EITHER CASE THAN A STATEMENT OF FACT WITH NO ACTUAL BEARING ON HOW TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM.
IN CONCLUSION:
THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN GOOD MANNERS, PERSONAL POLITICS AND FREEDOM OF SPEECH IS A COMPLEX ONE. IN THE WHOLE OF HUMAN HISTORY, NOBODY HAS YET SOLVED IT TO THE PERFECT SATISFACTION OF ANYONE OTHER THAN THEMSELVES, AND WHILE THAT DOESN’T MEAN THERE ISN’T A BETTER SOLUTION TO BE HAD IN THE FUTURE, I GUARANTEE THAT NEITHER CREATIVE ISOLATIONISM NOR BLANKET CENSORSHIP WILL GET US THERE, BECAUSE THE ONE THING BOTH THOSE POSITIONS SHARE IS FEAR OF CRITICAL ENGAGEMENT WITH A PERSON WHO DISAGREES WITH YOU, WHICH IS THE ONE THING YOU ABSOLUTELY NEED IN ORDER TO PROGRESS A DISCUSSION PAST WHATEVER STALLED YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE.
*flings megaphone into the distance, dons portable sharkcage, wades irritably back to dry land*
Oh my god, thank you.
uhhh, that being said: pornographic adult/minor content is literally illegal. and yall can take that up w the fbi if u have a problem.
Several points, in no particular order:
– Anti child-pornography laws exist in most places for a really fucking good reason, that is not for one second in contention, but different countries define those laws in different ways when it comes to fictional content, as distinct from images depicting the actual abuse of actual children. In many cases, there aren’t a lot of genuine legal precedents around prosecuting the creation of such content regardless of the letter of the law, so implying ficwriters are in danger of being investigated by the FBI is… not really accurate. I mean, Nabokov’s Lolita is the obvious thing to cite here, but there are people who tried to get Laurie Halse Anderson’s Speak banned from high schools because they considered its depiction of rape to be pornographic. There are multiple (ostensibly consensual) sex scene in A Game of Thrones between a twelve-year-old Daenerys (yeah, they aged her way up for the show) and the adult Khal Drogo, and those books are currently bestsellers. Plenty of things that are awful and immoral and illegal in real life are routinely depicted in fiction – murder, torture, domestic abuse – and not always in contexts where the text makes clear “hey, this stuff is Bad”. Talking about them is important, but for the reasons stated in the original post, it is really, really difficult to flat-out ban a particular type of content without simultaneously banning a whole bunch of stuff you might have preferred to keep, or at least not criminalise, so no, the FBI is very unlikely to open that particular interpretive can of worms right now.
– Different countries – to say nothing of different places in the US – have different laws as to what constitutes a minor. I’m Australian: in New South Wales, the state where I grew up, the age of consent is sixteen. It’s seventeen in South Australia, and sixteen in Queensland unless you’re having anal sex, in which case it’s eighteen because legal homophobia. Which is why, for practical reasons, the legal system frequently attempts to have a case-by-case approach to instances where, for instance, a fifteen-year-old willingly has sex with a sixteen year-old-partner. Attempts, but doesn’t always succeed: there are still too many instances of teenagers being legally registered as sex offenders for life for sleeping with other teenagers, or or being charged with disseminating child pornography for taking or sending naked selfies. Which is another way of saying that, firstly, even IRL, there is no global agreement on what constitutes a minor or what the practical rule should be for consensual sex between two young people, one or both of whom is slightly underage by the resident definition, should be; and secondly, that this makes it really difficult to impose a blanket ban on fictional depictions of underage anything without cutting out a whole lot of (comparatively) non-objectionable content.
– Defending creative freedom as a general point doesn’t negate making harsh criticism of certain works thus produced. It’s not contradictory to say “you were legally entitled to make that thing, but I think it’s super fucking gross and here’s why”. You know how GamerGaters and their associated hangers-on are constantly equating feminist criticism of videogames with censorship, because they think that saying “I hated this game and thought it was misogynistic as hell” is the same as saying “legally, nobody should be able to make that sort of thing ever again”? Yeah. That. It’s not that I want to outlaw (for instance) uncritically misogynistic stories; it’s that I want to change the prevailing cultural attitude that says there’s nothing wrong with them. Making laws about what people can and can’t create on the basis of morality does not work, but actively discussing stories and tropes in the context of their cultural impact? That can actually get us somewhere, and that’s what I prefer to do.
I’ve had numerous request for individual titles and ebooks so I decided that I’d make a masterpost of my collection and share it with you folk on tumblr for educational purposes, lord knows we could do with a few more sourced** posts up in here
The majority of these titles primarily focus on and tend to cover themes such as socialism / class / race / poverty. You’ll also come to find a handful of e-books on here revolving around topics such as gender, geography, mental health, depression, anxiety, feminism, religion, psychology and more.
Again many of these topics are interlinked but read away at your own pace and pleasure – hopefully these titles will benefit you as much as they have me.
Sidenote: Most of these files have .pdf extensions which I’m assuming most of you are comfortable with; however for those of you unfamiliar with .mobi or .epub document I suggest that you download Calibreto open all these files. Otherwise as a last resort you can try download a .pdf converter online or search for other .epub / .mobi readers
Sidenote 2: If any of these download links stop working or you were looking for particular titles not listed here visit my pageand shoot me a message and I’ll get back to you
Knowledge is power and I’d love to share more but it seems tumblr has a 250 hyperlink per post limit so I’ve split this masterpost into two part and limited it to ~500 books. This is part one of the collection. For part two click here
Sidenote 3: So it would also seem that when you reblog a post your url is obviously added as a hyperlink to the post. The hyperlinks in this post at the moment tally to a total of 248/249. After one or two further commentary reblogs (where someone reblogs with a comment and as such their url is left behind on the post) there’ll be 250 hyperlinks in this post. As a result of tumblr’s glitchy ‘250 hyperlink limit’ all the links in this post will stop working at that point. If this happens just come back to the source post and reblog/download from here again and everything should be back to normal. Enjoy!
If you’re young and not interested in sex, that’s very often just a part of being young.
This is something I’ve kind of wanted to touch on for awhile, but I always hesitate, because I want to word it properly and I don’t want anyone to think I’m somehow erasing asexuality, but I think this is important for young people to realise.
If you are under the age of 18 and you aren’t interested in sex, or the thought of sex makes you uncomfortable, or you feel weird watching sex scenes in films, or reading erotic fic, or if you’ve had romantic interests, but never wanted to do anything more than hold hands, or cuddle, that doesn’t necessarily mean you are ace. Those things are a natural part of being a young person. You’re underage, you’re not even supposed to have access to some of that stuff, and there’s a reason for that.
We live in a society that is very sex-focussed, and which children and young people are often sexualised. I mean all you have to do is look at some of the films, and ad campaigns marketed to teens and pre-teens, or the sorts of toys marketed to children, to understand that. It’s wrong, but it’s there, and one of the results of that is that I see children and teens feeling that if they aren’t interested in sex then they must be ace. That’s not necessarily true. It could be true, but since you are still legally underage, give yourself some time to figure it out.
It’s okay to say, “I don’t know my sexual orientation,” or, “I don’t know how I feel about sex,” or, “I’m not sure if what I feel when I’m with this person is sexual attraction or not.” I know you may want to figure it out, because it’s just one more way of understanding yourself, and that is fine, and good. But please, please, please, don’t feel that if you are uninterested in sex, or even if you are sex repulsed at fifteen, or sixteen, or seventeen, that it means you always will be. It’s natural to be uncomfortable with sex when you are young.
The one thing that sort of bothers me about the some of the ace discourse I see here, is that this isn’t always made clear, and it seems to further sexualise children by making them feel that if they aren’t dying to have sex the minute they reach puberty then they are ace. They’re kids. If they’re not dying to have sex, then good. They’re underage anyway. They don’t need to be having sex. They don’t even need to be experiencing sexual desire, or wanting to act on that desire. There is a reason there is a legal age of consent. It’s because before that age, young people are not considered emotionally, psychologically, developmentally, or sometimes even physically ready to have sex.
So anyway, just some food for thought. If you’re under 18 and are confused by, uninterested in, or even turned off by the thought of sex, that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re ace. It could just mean you are emotionally, psychologically, and/or developmentally not at a place where you are ready for sex, that that is 100% okay, and you shouldn’t feel that you need to defend your disinterest, or place a label on it. There’s no pressure to label yourself as anything! Take your time.
* and as an aside, if you are developmentally disabled, or neurodivergent, or have experienced trauma surrounding sex, feeling emotionally, psychologically and physically ready for or desirous of sex may take you even longer, and that’s okay too. Maybe after a long time you will discover that you just don’t experience sexual attraction at all, or only in very rare situations, or that you are always going to be sex repulsed, and you realise that you are ace. And if so, that’s great too, but please, if you fall under any of the above mentioned situations, don’t feel that being uncomfortable with, or put off by the thought of sex, no matter your age, automatically means you are ace.
** asexuality is very real, and there are people who are ace, and in saying these things I am definitely not trying to erase the identities of ace people.
^^This is important, and I wish I’d known all that when I was young!
So much good stuff right here. I always want to write a letter to young people about sex, because it’s so complicated and so many people tell you what to do and what to think and how to be (or you might internalize the huge flow of information streaming all around you as ‘instructions on how to be’ … I know that I did) that you wind up doing things that are uncomfortable, if not downright scary and traumatic.
As a writer of erotic fiction, I’m aware that generally most of what I write is unrealistic and if it DID depict a real relationship that that relationship would often be downright unhealthy (oh, think of all the dubcon!). Erotic fiction is written to turn on the reader, NOT written to describe realistic interactions – either interpersonal or sexual. When I was 15 and reading 80s Harlequins (oh God, has anyone ever read those? Just a few steps shy of rape, generally.) I thought that was how sex and relationships worked. Period. It was my only reference. Needless to say, many mistakes ensued.
So as OP says, take your time. If you’re uncomfortable, you shouldn’t do (or read, or watch) whatever it is. You have all the time in the world, you really do. It will all still be there when or if you’re ready to come back to it.